Children, upon reaching a certain age, can be very stubborn and determined. Some call them spoiled, but I prefer calling them strong-willed. It is normal for kids to want to have things their way, and when they don’t, they cry and throw tantrums regardless of the time and place.
Here are my proven and tested tips on how you can guide your strong-willed child: 1. Hear Your Child Out. Strong-willed children have strong opinions on things. You have to be careful when you deal with them so that they will not feel neglected. Carefully listen to them and acknowledge their emotions and opinions. The key here is for the child to feel that mom is listening and that he or she can talk things out with you. That way, you can let the child understand that what he or she wants is not right or is not good. 2. Set Things Straight By Laying Down Concrete Rules And Be Consistent. Strong-willed kids want to lead. If they can see that there is no leader, they tend to do things their way, thinking that they can lead. You should set rules for them to understand that they can choose and decide for themselves but in such a way that they should still act within the boundaries of the rules and still follow your lead. 3. Give Them Tasks And Let Them Help You. Strong-willed children feel that they are capable of doing things that adults do and so they want to take charge of things such as pushing the cart or carrying bags or even cooking. When this happens, give them a task or responsibility such as letting them wash the fruits or letting them help in mixing some ingredients. That way, they can feel like they are helping you do a very important job. Implement these 3 tips and use that strong will of your child to cultivate his or her personality. You will see a huge improvement in your child. He or she will be more cooperative and would throw fewer tantrums.
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